The Family – Children (Part 4)

The Family – Children (Part 4)

As we think about discipling our children, where do we begin?

And his sons went and feasted in their houses, every one his day; and sent and called for their three sisters to eat and to drink with them. And it was so, when the days of their feasting were gone about, that Job sent and sanctified them, and rose up early in the morning, and offered burnt offerings according to the number of them all: for Job said, It may be that my sons have sinned, and cursed God in their hearts. Thus did Job continually. Job 1:4-5

Job is a great example of discipleship. Take time to speak with your children individually about their walk with the Lord. There is no substitute for one on one private conversations with your child. Discipleship takes time! You must set aside the time to disciple your kids.

But continue thou in the things which thou hast learned and hast been assured of, knowing of whom thou hast learned them; And that from a child thou hast known the holy scriptures, which are able to make thee wise unto salvation through faith which is in Christ Jesus. All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness: That the man of God may be perfect, throughly furnished unto all good works. 2 Timothy 3:14-17

You must teach your children the Word of God from infancy. It is never too late to start, but you must teach them the Word of God. It is only through your child learning Scripture that they will become the complete person God has ordained for them to be.

The proverbs of Solomon the son of David, king of Israel; To know wisdom and instruction; to perceive the words of understanding; To receive the instruction of wisdom, justice, and judgment, and equity; To give subtilty to the simple, to the young man knowledge and discretion. A wise man will hear, and will increase learning; and a man of understanding shall attain unto wise counsels: To understand a proverb, and the interpretation; the words of the wise, and their dark sayings. The fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge: but fools despise wisdom and instruction. My son, hear the instruction of thy father, and forsake not the law of thy mother: Proverbs 1:1-8

The book of Proverbs was written by Solomon to disciple his son. It is a great place to begin in discipling your children. It deals with education, money, sex, choice of spouse, friendships, parents, money, speech, temptation, and a ton of other issues.

And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.Ephesians 6:4

When I call to remembrance the unfeigned faith that is in thee, which dwelt first in thy grandmother Lois, and thy mother Eunice; and I am persuaded that in thee also.2 Timothy 1:5

But speak thou the things which become sound doctrine: That the aged men be sober, grave, temperate, sound in faith, in charity, in patience. The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed. Young men likewise exhort to be sober minded.Titus 2:1-6

Although fathers are to be the primary disciplers of their children, this does not mean that they are to be the exclusive disciplers of their children. The father should seek to involve others in the discipleship of his children. Mothers and grandparents should take a huge role in this process. We should also seek older men and women to be involved in our children’s discipleship, especially as our children become adults.

And Jacob called unto his sons, and said, Gather yourselves together, that I may tell you that which shall befall you in the last days. Gather yourselves together, and hear, ye sons of Jacob; and hearken unto Israel your father.Genesis 49:1-2

Now the days of David drew nigh that he should die; and he charged Solomon his son, saying, I go the way of all the earth: be thou strong therefore, and shew thyself a man; And keep the charge of the LORD thy God, to walk in his ways, to keep his statutes, and his commandments, and his judgments, and his testimonies, as it is written in the law of Moses, that thou mayest prosper in all that thou doest, and whithersoever thou turnest thyself:1 Kings 2:1-3

Your discipleship of your children only ends when you are dead. It will take a different form as your children become adults, but a godly parent disciples their children even on their death bed.


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